February 21, 2007

Fun….we are always told in childhood that we should enjoy every moment of life but not by making fun of others.Others shouldn’t feel bad.There is a limit which should never be crossed and if crossed at any point of time can result in serious consequences.Who gave  us the bloddy right to make the fun of others?The first point is……where does it start?Who are the victims?Everybody knows that we do this to those,more precisely,we “can” do this to those whom we think are our close friends but the point which never comes to our mind,which we always forget is “There is a limit to everything”.The repetition of this sentence may not sound good but this is the only point which is coming to my mind and which I want to stress.As far as I’m concerned,I do this a lot,making fun of others without thinking about the consequences,without thinking or trying to think what they feel,without giving stress to mind to think when that limit has reached,without trying to know what is going on in their mind,without knowing what they are thinking about me,without thinking what I would have felt if they would have done this to me,what would I have done in such a sorry situation?The second point is……why do we do this?Number1–> Because we want to enjoy their helplessnes….Is it??No,at least not from my side.Then what?A tad too tough question?Anyways,still I will try to give the best possible answer whichI can think of.The point is,we make fun of only those who are our good friends and we enjoy making fun of them,may be because they are somehow special to us.The intention is not to hurt but to enjoy which is not the case most of the times and we are not able to realize that.Then what to do,should we apologize…the toughest thing in the world?I can’t.I know that it’s wrong but still I can’t.I leave it to the time…”Samay ki marham har zakhm ko bhula deti hai”.When I play T.T.,if somebody hits fast,then I hit the ball with atleast twice of the original speed,without thinking of the consequences and most of the times it doesn’t go to the table.Similarly,if somebody gets angry,instead of apologizing,I also get furious…really very bad but I can’t help.The thing is “Zakhm bhar jate hain par nishan rah jate hain”.So,the best thing is to use the magic word “Sorry”.Here,I sincerely apologize to all those who felt hurt just because of me and I’ll try not to do that again but I know that I can’t help it.So,u guys,better be careful next time.
Enjoy Felicity.



  1. Good to have a post from you after such a long time…………….and it was quite a light heartd but nonetheless warming topic……..it’s not always…… like this…. how many do we think in our casual lives….that a laughter just for the sake of fun can lead to serious consequences……but yeah one thign is for sure……. appologising doesn’t bring down one’s dignity……. only people with real hearts have the guts to appologise…..so t’s not bad to develop this habit……..
    keep blogging…….

  2. Yeh hui na Baat … Nice post dude .. 😉 .. we both have one thing in common . .the link to our blogs are in the form “ourname.wordpress.com” 😀 .. cheers bro

  3. abe sindhi ….bura to nahi lagta naa jab main tujhe sindhi bolta hun 😀

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